WoW - To my grim-faced girl

My darling girl,

I shall not post this until our gender reveal party in a few weeks, when others will celebrate that you are indeed who you are!

I'll keep it simple and short.  If a man ever sees you while you are thinking, sad, or otherwise do not have a giant smile on your face, and he insists that you put a smile on, you tell him this: SCREW YOU.  Don't actually say that, say something to that effect in a loving, Christian, but firm way.  There is no reason you should have to smile just because a man thinks you should.  Of course, this applies mainly to strangers and acquaintances; sometimes maybe your dad or uncle or friend will see you are bothered, and just want you to be happy.  But otherwise, screw the mindset that women need to be and look happy all the time.  Some of us having a resting b*tch face, after all.  Nothing wrong with that.  Are you thinking about something serious?  Well, your face is allowed to reflect that!  Are you sad?  Well, instead of telling you to cheer up, he can be a listening ear!  Does your expression just naturally revert to a solemn look?  Well that is just fine, and I already know you are too beautiful to put into any words.

There are many double standards put on women in this world; the United States offers more than most other countries, and for your sake and mine I am thankful to our Lord for these opportunities.  But for the sake of all that is good, you do NOT need to smile just because a man tells you to.